Sunday, April 29, 2012

How Writers Deal with Distraction

Managing Time and Interruptions

Distractions come in all shapes and sizes from a paper cut to a teenager who needs to talk right now. Learn when to allow distractions and when to close the door. Learning how to effectively channel the countless interruptions and distractions into something positive is a critical skill for a writer to master.

Writers come from every walk of life and work in various ways to get their jobs done. There are some significant boundaries that all writers need to have in place whether they work in Capetown or Cape Cod, in a high rise office or a back bedroom.

Prerequisite to Writing

Being unfocused isn't a bad thing as long as it is controllable. It is usually a prerequisite to writing, a period of time in which the mind floats, searching for a place to land.

That unfocused, intentional drift is an incredibly important time in which to gather ideas and choose a topic or a poem's direction. Thornton Wilder (1897 - 1975, author of Our Town) touches on this sensory ride in his quote, "The stuff of which masterpieces are made drifts about the world waiting to be clothed in words."

Find Your Focus

Clarity is that place where all writers suddenly feel as though a veil has been lifted and pure intention is harnessed. This is where ideas are lined up like horses at the track, ready to blaze straight out of the gates.

Once focus takes hold, the writing journey begins in earnest. George Lucas said it so succinctly, "Your focus determines your reality."

What's Distracting You?

Most writers suffer from the same group of everyday, common distractions:
  • phones ringing
  • email overload
  • home and yard work
  • pets and child care
  • exercise for health
  • time for friends and family
If writing is what you love to do, what is the problem? Most likely, the problem comes from not setting boundaries for yourself.

Get Organized and Set Boundaries

When setting boundaries this includes where and when to write. Writing from a central room in a house with pets and children running around is asking for trouble. Turning off a phone does not make you a bad person.
Simple steps to create order :
  • set up a writing space where interruptions will be minimal
  • turn off the phone (let voice mail take over)
  • allow yourself a set amount of time to read emails, check the news
  • make lunch time a special time for eating, talking, being playful
  • allow yourself a 30 minute time to exercise every day (walk, do yoga, pilates, zumba).
Once you take yourself seriously as a writer, so will everyone else. Creating order is simply creating a space in each day for writing to come first. Elizabeth Barrett Browning once said, "At painful times, when composition is impossible and reading is not enough, grammars and dictionaries are excellent for distraction." Now there's a way to regain focus!

Use Everything as Inspiration for Writing

Viewing distractions as inspiration in some way can help alleviate the feelings of annoyance and impatience. Stephen King said it best when he wrote, "In truth, I've found that any day's routine interruptions and distractions don't much hurt a work in progress and may actually help it in some ways. It is, after all, the dab of grit that seeps into an oyster's shell that makes the pearl." Exactly!

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Trend Spotting - Mustache and All

Trend Spotting Spring 2012
As a bit of a quiet rebel, mostly attuned to fashion with a sense of humor, I love the dastardly mustache trend. But I “mustache” you, could you let go of your serious fashion sense for a moment to allow me this silly, retro-vibed trend spotting?
As I strolled through a local mall recently, I found myself drawn to the one item that has been reportedly flying off the shelves; the black eyeglasses with a mustache dangling from a chain.  I had to try them on and then I had to have my picture taken in them just to show my kids how hipster I can be when pushed to the edge, except no one was pushing!
Not only are the eyeglasses selling like penny candy, but so are the long, black necklaces with a mustache pendant and temporary mustache tatoos.
Some people believe the fingerstache found its way into our youth culture through a popular reality show, Keeping Up With the Kardashians. When the Kardashian sisters drew mustaches on their fingers, they helped raise this comical trend to its current hot spot.
As the Kardashian darlings sported vintage-style fingerstaches, hipsters everywhere found the humor in it and resurrected the old-fashioned mustache to life again, only this time on chains and eyeglasess. Kelly Clarkson, Miley Cyrus and Justin Bieber have also been seen wearing the black, twisted mustache of eras gone by.
When you think about it, fashion moves in cycles from severe to playful, from serious and classy to bright and whimsical.  A trend like this one, a little mustache on a chain really just asks to be laughed at, nothing more, nothing less.
Or could it be more dastardly than that? (Sounds of loud laughter, boots stomping quickly away, and theater fades to black.)